Sports
Dad wasn’t just athletic—he was fearless, physical, and unselfconscious. Mom often mentioned how his high school principal at Soldan High told him to slow down, likely after watching him run energetically through the hallways between classes. His strength was remarkable. While living in Nashville, he tied a rope to the balcony outside his second-story bedroom and climbed up and down with ease. Even in his early 40s, at his heaviest weight of 180 pounds, he was filmed climbing a 12-foot rope outside our Houston home—a feat that left no doubt about his fitness and determination.
Our backyard became a sports haven, all thanks to Dad. Every summer, he set up a 24-foot above-ground swimming pool with a rim four feet off the ground. Dad would sprint across the lawn and dive straight into the pool without hesitation. Beyond the pool, he transformed our yard into a veritable sports park, complete with a large lawn, blacktop area, and a backboard for practicing tennis. He even installed four tall poles with floodlights so we could practice late into the evening.
When my brothers and I took up sports—Randy with basketball, Greg with golf and tennis, and all of us with baseball and touch football—Dad was always there. Despite his own work commitments, he never hesitated to drop what he was doing to join in. He often rounded out teams for games, like two-on-two basketball, and gave his all when playing. I’ll never forget watching Randy practice layups and three-pointers for hours under the floodlights—something we took for granted but only existed because of Dad’s vision and effort.
Dad’s love for sports wasn’t confined to our backyard. He made sure we experienced professional games, and those outings became some of my favorite memories. We’d drive into Los Angeles to watch the Rams at the Coliseum (Bill Wade, Norm Van Brocklin, Elroy “Crazy Legs” Hirsch, Jon Arnett), the Lakers (Jerry West, Elgin Baylor), and the Dodgers (Duke Snider, Don Drysdale, Sandy Koufax, Jim Gilliam). My birthday often coincided with a Sunday doubleheader featuring the St. Louis Cardinals, and seeing my hero, Stan Musial, step into his signature crouch at the plate remains a highlight of my childhood.
One especially unforgettable game was the exhibition at the Coliseum to honor Dodgers catcher Roy Campanella after a paralyzing accident ended his career. Dad and I sat in the top row, far from home plate, but the atmosphere was electrifying. When the lights dimmed and the crowd lit matches, the sight was awe-inspiring. Though we relied more on Vin Scully’s iconic commentary than our own eyes to follow the game, it was an experience I’ll never forget.
Stroke
Sitting at my desk on a Friday afternoon when the phone rang. I recognized the voice, my brother, but not the tone, “Dad is at Presbyterian hospital,” his voice cracking. The next thing I remember was walking into his hospital room that evening and being shocked at his appearance. “Corpse-ike” comes to mind, His face was lifeless, pale, and totally expressionless. Randy was there. “Mom has gone home, “ he said. And so, when the neurologist came in with the results of the brain scan, it was just the two fo us. Perhaps around 9 pm. His report was blunt and to the point. He stated categorically Dad would not walk again or be capable of speech. The stroke had killed his brain cells encompassing a large region of Dad’s left hemisphere, including an area called Broca’s region. How will Mom react to this?
Early the next morning, in the bedroom she had shared with Dad for 26 years, I shared with Mom what the doctor had shared with Randy and me the night before, “I’m afraid he will kill himself,” Mom said. The next thing I remember was calling people on the phone. Doctor’s prognosis, several asked whether it had anything to do with Dad’s stammer. I knew Dad loved his work, but these calls informed me of something I had not known. These men loved Dad. Years later, in the course of doing research for this book, this insight has been reinforced many times over in their letters.
Stammer
Dad stammered. While noticeable, it was not a defining feature of his voice nor a topic of discussion. Recordings of his speech reveal a monotonic quality—he spoke quickly and softly, requiring careful listening. His stammer must have been frustrating, yet he never discussed it or complained, nor did it keep him from engaging in conversation.
Modern science suggests that stammering (or stuttering) arises from disruptions in the neural processes that coordinate speech. Persistent stammering into adulthood is thought to result from a combination of genetic predispositions and differences in brain activity, particularly in areas responsible for speech and motor control. In Dad’s case, I wonder if his mind and mouth operated at such different speeds that the disfluency stemmed from speech not keeping pace with his rapid thoughts. Research has found that stammering may become more pronounced under time pressure or stress—moments when the need for quick articulation could intensify the disconnect between thought and speech production.
Despite these challenges, Dad’s stammer never held him back. I remember attending a lecture with him where, after the speaker concluded with the customary “Any questions?” an awkward silence followed. Seeing no hands raised, Dad would raise his own and ask the first question, despite his stammer occasionally impeding his phrasing. This small act, repeated on other occasions, demonstrated his resilience and willingness to speak up, regardless of the obstacle.
Far from limiting him, his stammer became part of his voice—not a hindrance, but a marker of his determination and ability to rise above the challenge.
Shopsmith
I was in fifth grade, sixth at the latest—possibly even fourth—when Dad bought the Shopsmith. For those unfamiliar, a Shopsmith is the Swiss Army knife of power tools. With remarkable versatility, it could transform from one function to another with relative ease. One moment, it was a table saw: the next, a drill press, then a band saw, or even a lathe. Its accessories supported ripping and cross-cutting, and its design allowed for both vertical and horizontal operations. One of its most useful features was its variable-speed motor, controlled by a dial ranging from A (the slowest) to Z (the fastest). It even came with a laminated card specifying the optimal speeds for various materials and operations. Of course, there was also a user manual packed with helpful how-to’s and safety guidance on every page. But, heck, Dad was an engineer—he could figure it all out, right? Right. And he did. Safety measures, however, were largely ignored. I count myself lucky to still have ten fingers and two eyes, let me tell you.
I distinctly remember the very first woodworking project we tackled with the Shopsmith: a four-drawer desk. It featured a top drawer and three side drawers, the bottom-most deep enough for file folders. Every visible surface was covered with a 1/16-inch veneer of hardwood, finished with two or three coats of clear varnish. The desk measured about 42 inches wide, 30 inches deep, and 32 inches high. And it was mine for the next ten years.
This wasn’t a simple project—not by any stretch. But, unless my memory fails me, we started on Saturday morning and completed it by Sunday night, all in that first weekend the Shopsmith graced our garage. I can still recall the hum of the motor, the scent of sawdust filling the air, and the sense of triumph as we attached the last drawer pull. I was a kid, barely ten years old, and I had just helped build a real piece of furniture from scratch. The pride I felt was overwhelming.
That desk wasn’t just a functional piece of furniture—it was a badge of honor; a tangible reminder of what Dad and I had accomplished together. Countless hours and projects followed with the Shopsmith, but none were as memorable as that desk we built between 1956 and 1958. It was the first, and it set the tone for everything that came after.
As you might have guessed, when I bought my first house in Mountain View in 1978, one of my first purchases was a Shopsmith of my own. And now, nearly 47 years later, it still finds its way into my projects. When I need to rip something that a chop saw or saber saw just can’t handle, the Shopsmith roars back to life, a steadfast companion through decades of craftsmanship.
Lessons in Learning
Dad had a lifelong fascination with education. He sought understanding—true understanding—not mere memorization. This passion is evident across many decades of his life:
· 1930s:At Washington University, Dad’s favorite professor was Roy Glasgow, who inspired him by encouraging students to solve problems independently while providing guidance and coaching.
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· 1940s:While at GE, Dad's passion for education was evident in the letters he wrote for the company’s engineering newsletter, where he emphasized learning and understanding.
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· 1950s:When McGraw-Hill reviewers questioned his decision to omit the Laplace Transform from his development of the root locus method, Dad stood firm. His classroom experience had shown him that students often memorized the Laplace Transform without truly understanding it. Despite pushback from multiple reviewers, he developed the concept in a way he believed was more comprehensible.
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· 1960s:Dad voiced concerns to my high school math teacher about the “New Math” curriculum, which emphasized memorization over understanding. At the same time, the district-wide annual mathematics contest, featuring practical problems written by engineers and applied mathematicians, encouraged real-world problem-solving. My brother Randy and I each won the contest, competing against students from half a dozen high schools. When I attended Caltech, Dad took great interest in Richard Feynman’s Lectures on Physics, finding their emphasis on fundamental principles far more illuminating than the physics he had studied in college.
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· 1970s:Dad built home computers from Heath kits and experimented with primitive links—precursors to modern hyperlinks. He saw this as a way to enhance learning, enabling readers to skip familiar content and quickly access explanations for unfamiliar terms.
Dad’s lifelong dedication to fostering understanding over rote memorization left a profound impact on those around him.
Accidental Deaths of my Evans ancestors
I was 32 years old when my dad was struck down by a stroke at age 60. As shocking as his stroke was, I later learned that tragic losses were a recurring theme in my paternal Evans lineage When my dad was just 14, his father died at the age of 49 from internal bleeding following routine operation. His father, in turn, faced tragedy early in life, losing his own father at the age of 13. That man, Gomer Daniel Evans, a locomotive engineer, perished when his train slid into the Missouri River after heavy rains weakened the track bed. The pattern continued further back in the family history. In 1851, my second great-grandfather, Daniel Evans, lost his father in an accidental drowning when he slipped off a dock in Llanelli, Wales. None of these Evans males died of natural causes.
The line between heroism and misfortune often blurs in the tapestry of life. A locomotive engineer guiding his train despite the inherent risks, or a man working hard to provide for his family, embodies everyday heroism. Conversely, slipping off a dock or succumbing to post-surgical complications highlights life’s capriciousness. Their heroism lies in their perseverance, their contributions to their communities and families, and their ability to navigate the unpredictability of their times. Recognizing them as such not only honors their memory but also inspires the current generation to find strength and purpose in their own journeys.
A Legacy of Strength:
These ancestors faced untimely ends, yet their lives—and the legacy they left behind—paved the way for future generations. Reflecting on their stories, one can sense their quiet heroism in navigating challenges and building a life despite knowing the fragility of existence.
A Reminder of Vulnerability:
While the circumstances may seem rooted in misfortune, they underline the inherent unpredictability of life. This realization can inspire today's Evans males to live purposefully, valuing health, relationships, and the moments often taken for granted.
A Call to Resilience:
The pattern also highlights resilience—the ability to continue, adapt, and grow despite losses. Honoring this trait can bring meaning to the lives of their descendants.
Preserve Their Stories:
Documenting and sharing their histories—whether through a book, a family tree, or even a short film—ensures their lives are remembered and valued. Highlight their professions, sacrifices, and dreams to celebrate their humanity.
Their heroism lies in their perseverance, their contributions to their communities and families, and their ability to navigate the unpredictability of their times. Recognizing them as such not only honors their memory but also inspires the current generation to find strength and purpose in their own journeys.